Rules of Courtship: SEX, TOUCHING AND RESPECT

Courtship is the period in a couple’s relationship which precedes their engagement and marriage, or establishment of an agreed relationship of a more enduring kind. During courtship, a couple get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement or other such agreement.

You may be innocent, and I may actually know that you are, but according to the law, if I can’t present any evidence before the courts then you will be just as good as guilty. I have heard that actions speak louder than words and I have come to believe this. For example, it is easy for me to say I love you to just about anyone, but then the challenge comes when I have to show that I really love you. Faith without works is dead, just as words without actions. No woman wants to hear a man say he loves her even a thousand times in a day without any actions to support that, for those are just empty words. Jesus said He loves us, and we all know how He proved it.

You love that lady or gentleman? Good!! Now prove it. Love is not in the way we kiss, in how many times we can have sex before we are married, it is not in how I can put my hands on any part of her body, that is just plain lust and if we live to gratify its desires we will reap our reward definitely. Love is me respecting her, knowing that I am not yet married to her, so that means her whole body fully belongs to God and I cannot do with it as I please. It is God’s property, and until God says I can share it with Him then I can’t. He is a jealous God as we all know, so touch or mess with His property and you will meet His wrath. If a relationship is based on love then there will be purity and respect for one another. “Marriage should be honoured by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God WILL judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.” Being sexually immoral goes beyond just having sex itself, it includes the sexual activities, the foreplay without the sex itself, all that is part of sexual immorality.

If you cannot keep your hands to yourself, your snake in your cage and suppress your lustful desires then you ARE NOT ready to be involved with anyone. If lust is still the master of you then relationships aren’t even for you yet, you need to grow out of lust and into love, you need to know what love is, then experience it, then after that you can give it. Love is God and God is Love, knowing God is knowing Love, and knowing God is being involved with Him, being one with Him, it is something so deep. If he is touching you all over then it is going to lead to sex, and if he is doing that then he has lost all respect for you and your body. Don’t give it to him or to her before due time, there’s a time for everything like the scriptures say, so you should know as well that there is a time of abstinence and a time for sex, a time for purity and a time for touching, prove your love by how you respect your partner.

***It is a Revolution, It is a Lifestyle, It is a Movement, It is Love Over Lust LoL***